even  in  times  of   TRAUMA,   we  try  to  maintain  a  sense  of  normality  until  we  no  longer  can.   that,  my  friends,  is  called  surviving.   not  healing.   we  never  become  whole  again   …  we  are  survivors.   if  you  are  here  today  …  you  are  a  survivor.   but  those  of  us  who  have  made  it  through  hell  and  are  still  standing?  We  bear  a  different  name:  WARRIORS.  ( previously vulcanistics )